Letter To Best Friend || 30 Day Letter Series

It is no surprise that I love letters; all types of letters. The fact that I have written more than received is another thing. When I stumbled upon this amazing 30 day letter challenge HERE, I was jumping a bit too high for my own comfort. I might not write all of these, but I am definitely going to try.

The prompt for day 1 is a letter to your best friend.


Dear Bestie,

My bestest friend has to be my sister because she is the one who has stuck by me the longest, despite knowing every single detail of the wreck I am. Unlike others who start the letter addressing it to people, I have a tendency of talking to myself when I do this. So, bear with me. Yes, people do have more than one best friends depending upon who we meet later in our lives, but here I am talking of my FIRST God Given BEST FRIEND.

Dearest sister and partner in crime, (I am the only one who has two addressing lines in one letter; perhaps the reason my sister along with a lot of my friends hate my writing 😛 ) 

You know there are times when I roll my eyes because your boss-iness is frankly more than any person can bear. However. those are the days when I truly realize how deeply I love you. The fact that I love you even when you are getting on my nerves is a proof of how helpless I am without you. It is hard to imagine living a life without you, because a girl can only keep that may secrets without sharing it with someone she relates to. You know things, no one in the world will ever know. The kind of inside jokes we share and the type of vulgar phrases we use can make the fattest dictionary the world has ever seen.



The elder is me, The younger is she

There are too many things I both love and hate about you. I had once read that until you have the big real fight, you can’t be sure that it is love. By god, how many times we have fought and bickered and came close to giving it up is a thing that can’t be counted. But, we always came back for each other. Yes, I’ve always been the one to say sorry, but then I always had the fatter heart between the two of us. Despite all the flaws you have, if there is one thing that I would not change in you, it is “you” yourself. (Oh God, did I write that?? I must be high n drugs today, not that I do drugs )


If one day, i wake up to find you becoming polite and docile, I would cry and cry until I get back the old you because regardless of how bossy you are, I love you the way you are and will always do so. There are too many things that tie us together and will continue to do so. It is you who correct my wrongs and probably even my rights. This letter is so devoid of all the vulgarity and nonsense things we share a great deal but regardless you must have found something in it and should you at any odd chance be reading this, I know you would still be giving your signature eye roll because that’s the way you say I love you to me.

You hate my typos, I love my typos.

You hate my overly zealous spelling, I love themmm

You disconnect the phone abruptly, I hate doing that..

You hate my writing, well, i kinda write because I like it.

You hate my stories, I love them

But you love me and I love you too.


We’re more than sisters; we were always destined to be the best friends each one of us will ever get and I don’t need to raise a toast to it because

I know, you know that we both know that we’re gonna be there till the end of times to hear the stupid stories, bitch about the ones we do not like, make fun of things that are not appropriate, invent codes no one can break, talk of things that are absolutely ridiculous and stand by each other’s side and shoo off the crows i don’t want to end up with 🙂 🙂


Here’s to some of the randomness not even the smartest detective can’t break

Cruz’s blunder pronunciation

Thank you for flying away the ominous black crow

The journey from bavney to what not.

The epic tones of baddeee D to Everyone’s D

Your affairs and my affairs 😛

The  post 12 o clock iPad bonanaza 😛 😛 

How we agree to disagree

The afternoon “bathu” moments

Need I say more.

Even when I am a fifty pounds fatter, you’re the one who will love me more because then you will get to wear all “our” clothes alone 😛 😛 regardless of the reasoning you have, i love you for loving me and make sure you keep loving me because you won’t get another one like me who writes all your Facebook statuses and the captions for your pictures. Hoye le, I wasn’t supposed to write that 😛 😛 

With love and eye rolls and fat wet kisses,


The elder sister you’re so used to bossing around.

Chinky. (That’s my nickname, she rarely uses because he have too many vulgar, shameful nicknames which for the love of all that is holy, I cannot write)


P.S. Thank you Count  Santulan for this wonderful letter idea.

P.P.S. I have no idea why you’re called Count 😛 😛


29 comments on “Letter To Best Friend || 30 Day Letter Series

  1. Santulan says:

    She is going to need a tissue now 😀


  2. imperfectous says:

    Hi dear…too funny but she truly is a best friend…

    Question, how can I subscribe to the 30 day letter challenge. I also write too many letters.Sounds fun…lemi know.


  3. AdiC says:

    Oh the bond between sisters! I need to make sure my younger sister reads this 😉


  4. beautsantua says:

    Reblogged this on On Purple Wings… and commented:
    In the process of collating old letters I’ve received and written through the years…

    Liked by 1 person

  5. I’d like you to take the time and watch the movie “The Perks Of Being A Wallflower” Stunning film!


  6. “our clothes” probably suits all sisters of similar age..atleast in my case that’s soooo true…h how so ever arguments, fights or squabbles we might have with our siblings..they are indeed our best friends..my bro and sis’s are..loved every line above..could relate..thanks for such a wonderful read…!!


    • ashadeofpen says:

      aww nothing beats the pleasure of hearing that what we write is something someone can relate to 🙂 makes me so fat happpyy ❤ Thank you loads and go on and write a letter to your sister and brother and surprise them with all the love ❤

      On Mon, Sep 8, 2014 at 2:18 PM, A Shade Of Pen wrote:


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